what are the true reasons or advantages of a love marriage that makes us support it so much so that even the thought of an arranged marriage sends shivers down our spine?? ever thought of it? i have to admit that i am part of the don't know how many % of those who totally disagree with arranged marriages. but then again i thought i would be a nice topic to blog about. =)
think about it, there are actually many benefits from an arranged marriage such as financial gains? of course happiness would not top of the list! but they could be happy seeing that both parties actually gave their consent! oh first thing first! I'm not speaking about forced marriage. ARRANGED MARRIAGE! which need not necessarily be forced btw.
for many, the courting process may be a pain due to many factors such as ego, shyness,lack of patience, fear of rejection?? you name it! haha. in spite all that, we still choose the hard way! why is that so?? an arranged marriage is basically worry free for both the parties involved since many the necessities would be settled by their families. haha. free and easyyyyy.. =P
i guess the fact that an arranged marriage actually limits our freedom of choice make us go crazy. who doesn't like freedom eh?! but with all the freedom entrusted to one, responsibilities also comes along. responsibilities ?? pain pain pain.....haha.
so anyhow many arranged marriages do work out,sometimes even better than love marriages. =)
ps. i still don't want daddy to arrange my marriage.
lol
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